It is something we tend to ignore so much but i have to be controversial to some so as to make my point home. Husband scarcity has become a major concern to our girls and young Ladies.Everywhere you go our ladies are talking of a good husband.In prayer centres they are praying for a husband. Recently we had 10days of prayers and some church ladies who happen to be my fellow church members admitted to me that they entirely prayed for a good husband.If you go to any women gathering you will find the same topic. Ladies believe it or not you won’t get a man of your dreams from the qualities you are giving. You are demanding TV characters from your favorite soap opera.You demand something that favorite actor you dream about is doing to her acting wife.You entirely forget he/she is reading from a script written by a person.You start characterising and demanding a fictional husband who you will never get.You want a man who will take them to a vacational holiday every month, a man who could bring you breakfast in bed ,a man will buy you a car a birthday present. You need this man as you are seated on your couch with your TV remote crying in front of your TV while your years are rushing to 30s.Even if you pray and pray in front of all altars cutting yourself like the Baal prophets you can’t get that fictional husband. The easiest way to find a
husband now, is to change your view of who a husband is. A husband is that man God made and then saw that it may be hard for him to really actualize his purpose for making him, without a help mate and then made the woman and gave to him, and he felt complete and fulfilled. MARRIAGE IS NOT A POVERTY ALLEVIATION PROGRAM. It is a mission of building the family of God here on earth. For those who see marriage as a way out of poverty, it is a way into bondage. Women are HOME BUILDERS, not HOME WARMERS… DON’T CONFUSE A MAN’S PATH WITH HIS DESTINY.
Where he is today, may only be a route to where God has destined him to be tomorrow. Another truth is that YOU MAY BE THE ONLY FAST MEANS TO THAT HIS DESTINATION. I am not saying that you should pick anyone that comes your way and talks of marriage, not all men are husband materials. What I am saying is that you should stop setting your standard on material acquisitions or physical appearances.Look beyond the physical. WHAT MAKES A MAN WHO HE IS, IS NOT WHAT HE OWNS OR HOW HE LOOKS, IT IS WHAT HE IS MADE UP OF.And that which he is made of is, most times, not seen with the physical eyes, only its effects can be seen.Marriage is a permanent thing. Whatever is seen is temporal and that which is not seen is permanent. Relax and go to God in prayer. God did not just make Eve for making sake; He made her for Adam’s need to be met. God did not make you for making sake!!!!!!!!!